ok guys thanks to all for your help :)
figured it out
i may very well be a dumbass
so i did the screwdriver trick like you suggested Taz_Rx, i also used a torch to shine down cyl 1 to confirm that piston was at TDC
so i went to mark a new TDC point when i realised there was already a small rusted notch there!... on the side CLOSEST to the timing marks
ie when i was using the timing light, i was looking 45degrees towards the pulley as to avoid tangling my cords in the fan, and i was looking
at the front face of the pulley, of course i saw the two large notches and assumed they were the ones i needed to align to
traps for young players
then i simply moved the distributor around and got it from 2deg to -20... oops, engine splutters, then back to 8deg
runs much better now
thanks!