MissKE70X

Probably going to sound like a d**khead trying to explain this issue 😂 So I’ve got a 84 KE70 brought not that long ago. Headlights had started to have a 10- 30 second delay after turning them on from the blinker/wand thingo. Suspected it was a faulty relay, replaced it - Worked for 2 days. Went to leave a friends house last night, headlights didn’t turn on at all. Parker lights work tho. Open the relay box behind the battery and hit the relay and lights turned on again. This afternoon I wanted to double check if they were working, didn’t. Had to turn the car on, hit the relay again and somewhat they turned on after a few hits. Turn the car off lights turned off while the lights are still switched on, on the wand. Switched to reds/Parker’s and again I had to hit the lights numerous times till they stay on. Any clue what could be going on? I’ve checked all fuses - not blown.  Attached a photo of the relay, still trying to figure out wiring as the old owner has just piggy backed everything. Thank you!