Bec

Just remember, if you've had a bad day,count to 10 and breathe deeply. It doesn't help to vent on others who aren't the reason your day is bad. (Even if you think you are doing the right thing by your friend.) As I tell my kids, "don't bash the computer if it's not working cos it will only break more and you'll have no more games." Walk away, collect your thoughts, breathe and try to look at it in a different way, and all your problems will work themselves out. Patience is severely underestimated. There is no point in lashing out, it only gets you in more trouble. (or sent to your room with no dessert.) They always listen and go to bed happy cos they got dessert.

Hi, I'm Doug's (Felix) Missus. Believe me, he does have an idea. As for you, what you are saying is slightly hypocritical, it is not your life is it??? I never wanted or needed sympathy. All you need Lexxi, is to believe in yourself. Take it from someone who has been there. You are the only person who can get this done for yourself. I learnt a long time ago, never to rely on anyone but myself to get done what had to be done. If I didn't do what had to be done, no one else would, and the crap I'd get from not doing things would be far worse. Believe me when I say that I actually wouldn't change anything from my teenage years. It has made me the person I am today. You can do it, believe in yourself. You are the only person who is in your head space, and you should only aim to make your head a better place for you. Doug isn't one for freely giving out sympathy, this doesn't make him a bastard. He gives out respect. This is far more valuable than sympathy. He taught me to believe in myself. Something my parents NEVER taught me. Me, I don't really sympathise either. But I will empathise with you. Life is hard and sucks a lot of the time. No one is walking in your shoes but you, and you are the only one who can make your life better. Remember to focus on the positive things. The little things really are more important than the big picture. Without the little things there would be no big picture.

Doug doesn't need to buy me things to show me he loves me. He shows me everyday, just by putting up with all my shit. If people truly are meant to be, they will ALWAYS be there for you through everything. He's put up with the absolute HORROR that my family have put us through and has never once held it personally against me (even though I have). You can choose your friends and lovers but you can't choose your family. He has been there through two pregnancies, the second being twins when I lost site of my feet at 4 months. He thought I looked funny (well I did), but he never put me down. He is a wonderful, thoughtful person who I simply couldn't live without. He makes me laugh and I trust him completely with EVERYTHING. If you guys feel as though you have to buy a girl stuff, to show her you like/love her, then she probably isn't worth the money you're spending. Just being yourself and who you are should be enough. If she misses you when you aren't around, constantly thinks of you when you are not together, can't wait to see you next and goes out of her way to be with you, then she's a keeper. Just hanging out with you will be enough to please her, even if it's going to the wreckers or changing the motor in the car (and helping you do it, getting greasy and liking it). Love is free and has no expectations. You love a person for who they are, not what they can buy you.

I don't get flowers unless I have a kid. (or two at once)

Luckily he's changed.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha :hug: |blink| :P don't worry so is Doug My first bunch of flowers were half dead and cost $1.50. (he left the reduced price tag on). Luckily I'm not a material person. It's the thought that counts.

:hug: hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha you're not scared of lil ol' 5ft 3 me are you? |blink| hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

rainbow warrior ninja will kick midget ninja butt if they don't go to bed.

no but midget ninja will smell and hear you coming..... he know where you are........ he at good ball-kicking height

an arc welder isn't really meant to do thin steel like on car bodies. you need a mig or an oxy, otherwise you will just blow holes. Doug (Felix) i posted from wrong window. she has IE, i use mozilla. i stuffed up.

Thank you :n: I am just trying to see you get a Head Jamie LOL.

Hi, I am Felix's (Doug's) BETTER Half. haha I have been sitting on the sideline for years adding my replies via Doug. I used to drive a ke16 wagon on a daily basis, but now enjoy the head back feeling of Doug's ke15, and the fact I can pass other cars in 5th gear on the way to work. He can have my slow ol' wagon and finally have my sloppy seconds for a change. I guess you could say I am also 1/2 owner of the 2 ke10's we have. Not to mention all of the spare shit that is continually copulating and growing in the shed. So hello to all of those that I have already met, and to those of you I have yet to encounter. Bye for now Bec :Þ

I still think the green one. As for the boiled lolly comment, don't boiled lollies get sucked long and slow. :n: Bec