Hey mate,
I think I can speak for the whole of rollaclub when I say we are sorry to hear of your loss, regular member or not.
I personally can somewhat understand in what you're going through. My little boys was born in May last year at 27 weeks gestation and weighing in at 795 grams...... http://www.rollaclub.com/board/index.php?showtopic=30619 Life for him was very touch and go for the first few weeks with breathing difficulty, going on and off CPAP and ocilator ventilators. I can't however imagine how we would have felt had we have lost him..... I almost feel like crying typing this now.
Most of us here are pretty compasionate sort of people so hopefully somebody else can help you with your request. I would most deffinately help you out but my location doesn't really help.
I really don't know what else to say at such a difficult time in your life......
I suppose 2 hours to have known and loved is better than to have never loved at all.
RIP Abigail.