Dude ring up Autopro and ask for a clutch aligning tool specific to your car. I rang around lots of places and none of them are old school enough to have one except for Autopro. It makes the job so easy, you just stick it in, then tighten all your bolts for the clutch plate voila :P
It will be about $8.00
I feel like I have joined this journey most of the way through, if you just want some help to finish it let me know and I'll come around. This should not have taken this long to do :(